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Calmer days start with you, then grow with your child

Parenting through big feelings is hard. Begin with support for yourself (self-help tools and sessions with qualified therapists) then help your child practise naming feelings, repairing mistakes and finding a safe adult.

  1. Step 1 · For you

    Parents & carers →
  2. Step 2 · For your child · Ages

    8–11 →12–16 →
A cosy painted classroom craft corner with a cardboard space rover
Maya, aged nine, lilac star jumper and high ponytail
Leo, aged ten, teal hoodie and round glasses
Aisha, aged eleven, long plait and a sage green cardigan
Pip, a friendly robin

Choose your path

What they practise

Six everyday skills run through every story and challenge.

Naming feelings

Noticing what's happening in the body and finding words for it.

Mistakes & repair

A mistake doesn't make you a bad person, and things can be put right.

Friendships

Joining in, being left out, disagreements and making up.

Boundaries

Saying no, hearing no, and knowing your body belongs to you.

Finding a safe adult

Recognising when something is too big to hold alone, and who to tell.

Knowing your needs

Understanding what helps you feel calm, safe and heard.

How it works

  1. 1

    Create an account

    A parent or carer signs up in a minute. Teens aged 12–16 can sign up on their own.

  2. 2

    Add your child

    Use a nickname only. Each child gets a space with just the content for their age.

  3. 3

    Play and see progress

    Children play at their own pace. You see what they've finished, never what they write privately.

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For parents & carers

Guide, don't lecture

  • Progress dashboard: see stories finished, cards collected and badges earned.
  • Conversation starters: gentle questions to ask after each story.
  • Grown-up Companion: optional side notes that explain what each moment is teaching.

Safe by design

Sensory-friendly

Soft colours, no autoplay, no timers. Everything goes at the child's pace.

No ads, no chat

No messaging between users and no AI chatbots. Every story is written by people.

Private writing stays private

Anything typed stays on the screen and is never saved or sent.

Learning, not therapy

We never diagnose. The Get Help button lists UK support such as Childline 0800 1111.

For parents & carers

Looking after you matters, too

Holding a child's big feelings is hard work, and it's normal to feel stretched. Reaching for support isn't failing, it helps the whole family. Choose the kind of help that fits you right now.

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Option 1

MySafeTherapy self-help tools

Things you can use in your own time, whenever you need them.

Calm-down moments

Short breathing and grounding exercises for when a hard moment is building.

Words for tricky talks

Gentle phrases for meltdowns, screen limits and making up after raised voices.

Self-compassion practices

Small, kind check-ins for the days you feel you're getting it wrong.

Guides from our blog

Longer, researched articles on children's feelings, parenting and family life.

Option 2

Book a session with a therapist

When self-help isn't quite enough, talk with a qualified, UK-registered therapist, online, at a time that suits you.

Parent consultation

Talk through what's happening at home with a child and family specialist.

Support for you

One-to-one sessions focused on your own stress, low mood or overwhelm.

Family sessions

Guided conversations to rebuild calm and connection together.

  1. 1.Tell us a little about what's going on
  2. 2.We match you with a therapist
  3. 3.Choose a time that works
Book a first session →

If you need help right now

Our tools and sessions aren't an emergency service. If you or someone else is in danger, call 999.

  • Samaritans: 116 123, any time, day or night
  • Family Lives: 0808 800 2222
  • YoungMinds Parents Helpline: 0808 802 5544
  • Shout: text SHOUT to 85258

From the parent blog

Read the blog →

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Little stories. Skills for real life.

Pick the path that fits your child today.